As we begin our journey as a division towards
Truth & Reconciliation, I am anticipating it to be emotional yet
reflective; not only will it enlighten us as a community, but will be one of
those never-forget-life-changing-so-thankful-we-went-there-voyages that will
change us not only as educators, but as people.
I saw evidence of that today at
FAA (Foothills Administrator’s Association) when Dar, the FNMI Success Coach,
took us back through time from colonization, to the Red River Rebellion, to residential
schools and then back to 2016 where the stories of students unfold in front of
us everyday.
While
listening to the stories of residential school survivors in the documentary Stolen Children, we
learned the dark secrets never told in history books about the impacts on those
children who attended them as well as the seven, yes - seven, generations of people who came afterwards. The intergenerational trauma – the loss of
identity, belonging and culture - the cycle of abuse, the normal for many families, the fear of educational institutions and
white people, the struggle with whether I am “white enough or brown
enough”...all provided new points of view I had not considered before or felt
with my heart. Until today. I sat frozen
listening to direct quotes from the Canadian government at that time explaining
the “Indian problem” and justifying actions. I am left to hope it was because
they did not know any better. That is
the only comfort I can give myself because otherwise, it’s too disturbing a
thought...
I
walk away from today, from Dar’s stories, knowledge, passion and wisdom more
reflective than I have been in a long time; moved to the very core of who
we are as people, as a community and as educators of all children. I think about the importance of building
compassion and empathy in order to relate to people who have a different story
from our own, especially one seeped in fear, abuse and poverty.
Reconciliation
starts with understanding, and
understanding begins with building relationships: To listen more. To ask
questions more. To love more. We may not be able to help an entire culture
but we start with one child, one student, one family, one relationship. We “look with different eyes and look with
our heart a little more” (Darlene Cox, 2016).
As Madeline Dion Stout eloquently
said, “I’d like us all to be part of a team that really makes a lasting
difference for not only residential school survivors but the other little
children who are having difficulties today” (Stolen Children, 2016).
By
their stories, I can’t help but think
beyond students who are First Nations, Metis, or Inuit but to encompass all of our
students. Everyone comes to our
classroom and schools with a story that already has prior chapters that describe
their struggles, triumphs and characters who have either been in conflict with
or in support of them. So, the question we
need to ask ourselves, as educators, is what part of the story will we play in
the lives of our students? The choice is
ours to make.
**For more resources check out the links on the right under FNMI**